There is always a disconnect between perceived reality and 'reality'. But then does something called reality exist? Every fact, every event can be and more often than not is interpreted in numerous (may be infinite) ways by different people. These interpretations may be similar or contradicting but no two individuals process it in the same way. There is nothing right or wrong about any of the interpretations, they are merely different ways to look at the same situation. Thus my reality is different from your reality.. may be. My perceived reality stems from my experiences, identity and my state of mind.
When do these perceived realities start causing trouble? It is when we become intolerant to each others realities. Holding on to our ego and feeding it with suspicion, fear and hatred. Forgetting the humanity in others.
This leads to loss of peace - within and without.
What would be the best way to move forward when contradicting versions of realities come face to face?
How do we move towards a more shared version of the reality? Is it possible - I would like to think so that there is at least a possibility of finding common ground - to prevent conflicts and hatred. It is easier to do this in nascent and developing conflicts for sure.
I think the beginning would be the oft used and misused term - Empathy.
But is it possible to be truly empathetic - Can you be aware of the feeling and perspective of another individual from their perspective without having actually experienced it? Can you 'learn' to be empathetic? What would help you in moving towards empathy from sympathy/ hatred/ or pity?
I think consciously seeking out opportunities for an open dialogue, shared (or similar) experiences, access to knowledge and information which contradict your beliefs and understanding could be a beginning.
Who said it was easy???
When do these perceived realities start causing trouble? It is when we become intolerant to each others realities. Holding on to our ego and feeding it with suspicion, fear and hatred. Forgetting the humanity in others.
This leads to loss of peace - within and without.
What would be the best way to move forward when contradicting versions of realities come face to face?
How do we move towards a more shared version of the reality? Is it possible - I would like to think so that there is at least a possibility of finding common ground - to prevent conflicts and hatred. It is easier to do this in nascent and developing conflicts for sure.
I think the beginning would be the oft used and misused term - Empathy.
But is it possible to be truly empathetic - Can you be aware of the feeling and perspective of another individual from their perspective without having actually experienced it? Can you 'learn' to be empathetic? What would help you in moving towards empathy from sympathy/ hatred/ or pity?
I think consciously seeking out opportunities for an open dialogue, shared (or similar) experiences, access to knowledge and information which contradict your beliefs and understanding could be a beginning.
Who said it was easy???
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