Life shows us various colours..takes us through various experiences....If it takes a steady route...then life would be very boring...everyday should bring with it new experiences, learning, different emotions and changes... the challenge is to undergo all of this and come out a better person.And it is not that we don't have choices... We always have them, we should have the courage to take risks in life and make choices we feel will give us happiness. Making mistakes is important to learn new things, thus we should not be scared of taking wrong decisions.
It is important to explore life and enjoy it while doing so. All that we go through only gives us a better understanding of the world, life and other people. It is easy to take the trodden path, there would be not many surprises, but more difficult, and also interesting is the untrodden, unexplored forests which hold all kinds of thrills and is still a mystery. But this doesn't definitely mean that one becomes irresponsible and unaccountable. The path you take affects you the most, so you are accountable to yourself. Do not forget that.
Instinctively human beings go away from pain and towards pleasure. But it is also true happiness lies within. You should be at peace with your self. It is the inner conflicts which cause the maximum pain. It makes your loved ones also miserable. Thus we should try to find the happiness within ourselves before searching outside. Material gains can only supplement the happiness but not be the source of it. We all get into this vicious cirlce of wanting more with this misconception in mind.
So i guess thats all for today...